Love is complicated. Not because it is hard but because people don't come together for it. People date for that instant gratification. Boredom and just something to do, a free dinner even. There really is no such thing as 'love at first sight.' Instant attraction, yes, not to be confused with love. Love is something that is built after months, years. After many compromises, understandings, acceptances, sacrifices, and maybe after you've wanted to strangle the person at some point. Love doesn't need to be said...it helps but it's something that is felt and not heard. There is no need to say it just so that you knows it's real...or so that the other person will know it. Just love, verb. Do it.
I do feel lonely sometimes but it's not a reason to be with someone. I will only choose to be with someone when I am ready. That's something that I have to keep reminding myself because it's a human need, naturally. The need for human companionship. Food, shelter and companionship. Would sex be a part of that? Ek! I can without! LOL
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